Wednesday, September 30, 2009

backed.


I just read some articles.

Love.

Cus im confused, is there really such things as 2 sides love?

And answer is no.

The love I'm talking about relationships.


I read this,

Appreciations is very different from love, which a lot of couples till now doesn't differentiate it.
Until they realize that they are actually cheating on them and foul mouthing behind them.
Appreciations often led to repaying the kindness and not letting them down. Even though a shoulder to lay. It's different but with a vast complication.

Real love. The one who you choose to talk about very personal problems and troubles. You will trust that person with your surrounding. No matter what happens to the person you love, nothing will changed. The one that you will show your true self and being true to yourself. Where honesty occurs. Sad to say, because of temptations, married couples regretted at their late marriages.



Some actually don't know or confused is because they are afraid of hurting one of them. And also afraid of losing one of them.
Oftenly, people who claims themselve for loving 2 people at the same times actually don't know what they want and usually are not true to him or herself. Mainly, confused.
Start of the problems are usually being love by someone and loving someone else.
Some facts is, you can love 2 people at the same times but not to be "in love" with 2 at the same time. It's a matter of how you restrict yourself, and how mature you are. Some can be in love with material which actually contain no faults because material does give you the security and fulfillment but have you forgotten the origins of love? Many people are misled through exposure of temptation and betray themselves.




"If I love two women equally I would choose the one whose values are most similar to mine. The one who sees the world the same way as I do. The one whose dreams and ambitions are compatible with and complementary to mine. With the almost similar thinking. Quarreling is acts an important factor. There is no love without quarrels. Love is an emotion that comes and goes with the passing of time; one needs to have a sound practical foundation to build a relationship that will last a lifetime."




Money is the roots of all evil;
love is the problem of all humane.






After reading so much through the night. I realise that i actually love you. And is what they called true love. True love will not last, It's like an ice, that will melt unless it is handle at the right temperature. Which is very rare to be found.
but nevertheless, i understand that being love by someone and loving someone is different. I hope you can differentiate soon enough. You should know the longer you drag, the damage is deeper.


just one time, be harsh and choose. I dont wish to see you, me or him to be hurt any longer. Baby...

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